Herotodotus in his work History tells the story of the Persian King Darius and his travels. Darius, in this story, observes the funeral practices of the Greeks who cremate their fallen on a pyre. He also observes that rather than a pyre, the Callatians, an Indian tribe, ate the bodies of their dead fathers. Thus, Darius summons to his court a group of Greeks and asks them for what amount of money they would eat their dead father's bodies. No amount of money, the Greeks reply, could persuade them to do such a ghastly thing. The Callatians, on the other hand, are horrified when Darius suggests that they instead cremate their dead. The cultural differences, Darius noted, were important in having a sophisticated understanding of the world. Neither the Callatians nor the Greeks were any better than the other, culturally speaking, they were simply different.
This is the story that the defenders of relativism constantly use to defend the tolerance of every cultural practice under the sun. But how far can we possibly extend this reasoning in these times? Cultural relativism, at its core, is a moral justification for all cultural practices. It challenged the universality of "Western" moral truths, so say the relativists, and is therefore not palatable for most in the West.
But is that really the case? Is it really true that neither the Callatians nor the Greeks were objectively correct or incorrect? I'd say that, in this particular case, neither was incorrect. The fact that people believe different things to be true does not mean that there is no certain truth. In the case of the Greeks and Callatians, the matter is fairly innocuous -- who can tell which is the correct practice? Perhaps the custom of funeral rites is correct -- perhaps if the Callatians desecrated their dead and the Greeks didn't, then we would see an objective right and wrong?
To put this in a modern context, let's take the case of Mahmod Mahmod and Ari Mahmod. Mahmod was the father of Banaz Mahmod and Ari was her uncle. Banaz fell in love with a man whom the family disapproved of. She decided to marry him anyways.
Now, let us bring Darius into modern times. In New Jersey, let's say, Darius notices that a culturally Western family responds with anger to their daughter's marriage to a man they disapprove of. They have a long and serious talk with both of them. The father storms out. The mother cries. The family becomes estranged from the girl, but they all go on to live their own lives. Darius observes, in London, a similar situation. Banaz Mahmod, a Kurd growing up in a household which promotes a culture in which women are inferior and subservient to men, marries an Iranian Kurd. Her family does not approve. So the father and uncle plot with another family member to kill her. They eventually do so, raping and murdering her in the family home. Her body is stuffed into a suitcase and then buried in a garden.
Can Darius conclude that both cultural practices -- the latter being an honour killing -- are equally valid? Can he conclude that since both families believe they are doing the correct thing, there is no objective truth as to which practice is actually correct? I would say no.
So does the Canadian model of multiculturalism demand cultural relativism? No, of course not. Multiculturalism must not -- cannot -- become synonymous with the relativism that says honour killings, female genital mutilation, and arranged marriages are simply societal quirks. Does this mean that we disrespect other cultures or people? No, not so long as they are respective of certain basic universal truths -- gender equality and respect for life come to mind.
It is my firm belief that this is the question of our times -- is our culture seriously better than any other? Do we seriously believe that? I do -- that is, I imagine, why I find myself troubled by the practice of honour killing; it is why I find myself troubled by female genital mutilation, and so on. What serious, reasonable person can look at these practices and still maintain that there is no difference in validity between a culture that does and does not validate them?
This brings us to the tricky issue of religion. A brief survey of history could be interpreted to illustrate that religious devotion in the conservative sense is the motivation behind this cultural backwardness. Burning witches at the stake and female genital mutilation are products of the conservative forces of religion, even if not directly sanctioned by any religious text, are they not? Perhaps, but perhaps it's really the other way around. The backwards religious conservatism could just as easily be a product of the savagery -- and no, I don't hesitate to use that word -- of the culture.
Depending on where you come down on that question, your view of the world and of foreign policy is probably starkly different. Do you believe in the singularity of religion posited by Huntington and the Clash of Civilizations model or in the dominance of culture and historical progress put forth by Fukuyama and the End of History model?
After 9/11, Ann Coulter (no doubt saying what a good portion of the right-wing was thinking) crowed that we should invade the Muslim world and convert them to Christianity. Plenty of good that would do! The history of Christianity is no less barbaric and bloody than that of Islam. So, to be clear, a difference in religion is not the same as a difference in culture. Advocating against relativism, as I am doing, is not an indictment of Islam or Christianity, but rather of the cultures in this world, whatever religion they may adhere to, that violate certain universal truths. It is also, by the way, an indictment of the relativists who claim that these universal truths don't even exist.
Martin Amis, in a spectacular essay in the Guardian, touched on cultural relativism. During a trip to Pakistan, a local friend of Amis' -- a reporter, no less -- begins to haggle with a local street vendor over the price of a shirt emblazoned with Osama bin Laden's visage. A crowd soon gathers. "Why you want these? You like Osama?' they ask. "Of course. He is my brother," replies the reporter. "He is your brother?" asks the crowd, to which the reporter replies "All men are my brothers." Thus, Amis notes:
"All men are my brothers. I would have liked to have said it then, and I would like to say it now: all men are my brothers. But all men are not my brothers. Why? Because all women are my sisters. And the brother who denies the rights of his sister: that brother is not my brother. At the very best, he is my half-brother - by definition. Osama is not my brother."Indeed. All men are not my brothers.